Celebrate 15 years with the "Springing into Joy" contest!
March marks the 15th anniversary of the Passage's opening; let's celebrate 1, 500 posts, and uncountable— but just as important—comments with a fragrance draw. Thank you, honeybunches!
There is a natural lift built into spring, a surging, optimistic mood. Gwen of perfumeniche and I are treating three winners to five1ml decants of spring-delight fragrances. Florals, as you'd expect, but also some surprises, just like the season here.
The "Springing into Joy" Decants (1ml)
Angels of Florence (Santa Maria Novella) is a cologne of tender beauty, as Gwen says, "light and ethereal", with notes of jasmine, lilac, bergamot, gardenia. Created to commemorate the 40th anniversary of the flood of the Arno in 1966 and the "angel volunteers" who arrived from all over the world to help.
34 boul. St. Germain (Diptyque) opens with cassis, moves into cardamom, cinnamon and clove, and drops to soft, woody iris. The scent is informally chic, like the flagship Diptyque boutique at that address.
Mon numéro 6 (L'Artisan Parfumeur) is a limited-edition scent that takes us to Asia, where spring monsoons release aromatic lychee, mango, magnolia flowers and the woody notes of sandalwood and amber, alongside aquatic notes of rain falling on earth.
Eau de Céleri (Monsillage) does not suggest celery; it unfurls notes of bergamot, lemon, grapefruit and cut grass. This fresh, bright beauty by Montréal parfumeur Isabelle Michaud has gained such a following that few question the name.
Roses: there have to be roses! La fille de Berlin (Serge Lutens) presents a sumptuous rose. I imagine a woman in Berlin, wrapped in her thoughts, a caramel-coulored jacket, and this scent, while she strolls past squares and then stops at a bookstore. Deep, rich rose, with notes of violets, pepper, musk.
Qualifying entries will be chosen by a draw, executed by my dapper neighbour Bob, who has come to relish his role.
1. Send an email to gwen@perfumeniche.com with the header "Springing" by 12 midnight EST, March 28, 2023
2. In the body of the e-mail, answer the skill-testing question, "To Duchesse, what does WWJD stand for?"
3. Sign the email with your name, e.g., Suzanne G., or username., e.g., "gingercat"
Qualifying entries will be selected by one draw per prize; three prizes will be awarded.
I have more to say about the differences fifteen years have brought, and that's the next post! And, if you are not among the winners, or simply want more of these bosky beauties (what a terrific gift!) Gwen will offer the decants as a "Springing into Joy" pack on perfumeniche.
In March 2008, partly as respite from the uncertainty and bleakness of a financial crisis, I sat down to write what I wanted to read, and could only rarely find online.
The shutters swung open with two now-familiar posts: one on Indian shawls, the next, on pearls. I worked then, had red hair, and was a size or two larger and an inch taller than now. Fifteen years later, I'm retired, grey-haired, and still besotted with pearls and textiles.
Your support has kept me going, and by "support" I don't mean "agreement". There are so many Eileen Fisher admirers out there that I should still watch my back. OK, I'll give it to you on EF's quality and sustainability, but a dolman sleeve flatters no one.
What hath fifteen years wrought, style-wise?
Bad news:
1. Despite interest in circular production, we are making ever more polyester; recycled polyester is not the surefire alternative. Companies that once made pure-fibre clothing now sneak in acrylic and even more evilly, describe that blend as "supersoft yarn", with no mention of the content until you search.
2. Quality has eroded; therefore, clothes don't last as long. One industry analyst says the impetus was that 2008 financial crisis, when brands were drowning in unsold inventory. This report by Emily Demkes on "The Correspondent" includes studies that prove it (shades of Home Ec class, 1966!). I'd love to see more product testing made public, a kind of "Cook's Illustrated" for clothes.
3. Inflation has crept in and prices will not revert. Even designer brands price goods knowing they will discount them by around 30% within a few months. The highly-saturated luxury segment, which cannot discount without denting their reputation for exclusivity, has raised prices more than the tier under it.
Good news:
1. More democratization: there is no longer one aspirational look. We have everything on tap: dark academia, coastal grandma, grown-woman skater. We can flit among eras and styles via endless sites— what one article called "The Big Flat Now". Sometimes, though, this vast choice breeds decision fatigue.
2. The resale market continues to gain traction, and the attitude toward buying secondhand turned around for good. Online rental, that evil spawn of layaway and secondhand, was born in the mid '00s and stuck around.
3. Consumer awareness of the true cost of clothing grew, especially that of fast fashion. The bigger picture—the role of possessions in one's life—gained prominence; we met Marie Kondo. Though anecdotal, by 2021 nearly every woman I knew well enough to glimpse her closet had cut back.
In that spirit, a few 15th Anniversary things in the window today; let's look before we have a coffee together and catch up. Not a coincidence that these echo the things I wanted to share when the Passage opened fifteen years ago!
A two-sided silk kantha scarf, from Etsy seller VastraIndia. The ochre and blue is a vibrant spring combination, the weight of these make them excellent transitional pieces, and they are hand-washable. Price, $CDN 71. (Price to ship seems high—$42— it is probably by air.)
A cool floating Tahitian pearl ring: a gray Tahitian 'floats' on a silver band. simple and dramatic piece. Made by Marc Goundard, whose studio is in his catamaran, docked part of the year in California. He has made pieces for Kojima Company as well as his own designs. Isn't it wonderful to see these Tahitians in an entirely hand-made setting instead of plunked into manufactured blanks? Price, $CDN 362. If it is s/o, consider a commission.
Meltingly tempting, and ready for years and years of wear: Aethel Crucial Cardigan in "Primrose", for spring. Let us pause before the details: the deeply-ribbed hem and cuffs, the wink of cabling at the side, the horn buttons. Made of Loro Piana yarn, knitted and finished in London. Price, £315.
Comments
How much has changed over those years, you're right. The thing I mourn the most is the diminishing quality of items made by what used to be absolutely dependable brands.
Oh my, I'd not encountered Aethel before. I don't wear cardigans (never right on me) but The Short Sleeve looks rather wonderful, with a similar level of pleasing detail. And it comes in pillar box red (sighs...)
Laura J: And thanks to you for your comments and ideas.
Jane in London: Aethel is divine—and you can stop by the shop. (I would be in trouble.)
mimi
I can't remember when I started reading your blog, but since I've read all the archives it feels like I've been there from the beginning .
I admire your 'voice' and humour and have learnt so much from the topics you choose to cover.
Here's to many more 🎉😊
Johanna
Anyway, I got sidetracked from frugality and started reading the women over 50 blogs. You are for me the 'last survivor" (reference to Beowulf!) of those days, when I felt there was a community of women exploring aesthetics and other things and not just shopping.
A while back, I wanted to restart my blog and found I could no longer get in. It seems I forgot a crucial step or password.
Changes? Still frugal for fun but trying to figure out what post-frugality feels like.
My little town of 8000 or so must be filled with generous over-shoppers--in 2008 I was able to get about 50% of clothing secondhand for me and my family. Now I'm up to at least 80%. An embarrassment of riches, in several senses.
Still trying to declutter...
This is long enough. In 2008 I was blown away by your magnificent writing and discerning sensibility. Still true.
PS Oops! Missed deadline for your contest. e
My take on post-frugality is reflected in my focus on value investing, which is why Mr Buffett sometimes strolls through the Passage. I want a decade from a serious purchase like an EB cashmere. (Given my age, 10 yrs will do—but I have many 20+ yrs old and still look fine.)
The Beowulf reference is sobering; as I recall the Last Survivor is a sad man, all friends and allies gone, left to do nothing but guard a treasure. Talk about attachment to stuff ;)
80% secondhand, wow, and I'll bet it's good quality, too. Lately I have been unable to find as much whole- fibre clothing; the younger crowd are buying in huge quantities to resell on Depop etc. (I hear them chatting).
At the time my family was undergoing a terrible situation. For some unknown reason our adult son had decided to cut himself off from us with no reason given it was a painful time for all of us. You wrote a post addressing adult children separating themselves from their parents often with no reason given. To me the discussion was a blessing, reading the comments and realizing that we were not alone was a sort of balm to my soul…at that time we felt very much alone, the foundations of our family were cracking badly and we were unsure how or when we would heal. We have since reconciled and ‘are stronger in the broken places’, stronger than before. Lessons learned on both sides.
So thank you for writing on that subject and many others that are often ‘pearls’ in disguise.
Always room for the cashmere, bijoux and perfume though, because pleasure is also part of life.
All: Anita told me that over the last few months, after years of distance, her child had initiated contact and things are going well, slowly. She mentioned the Ontario-based Sashbear Foundation's "Family Connections" program as an invaluable resource. This is a free 12-week course offered throughout Canada, either online or in person. It is for anyone in a relationship (family or friends) with emotion dysregulation.
The post Allison cites is here:
https://passagedesperles.blogspot.com/2020/10/when-child-choses-estrangement.html