Gifts for your grad

Parents usually know what to give, but relatives and family friends often grapple with the choices.
Oh Aunt Emma, you shouldn't have!
Stellar achievement? Someone who'll appreciate a beautiful object?
Ideas for special gifts:

from Epica, $145 in delicious buttery calf-skin, with archival paper. Since the book is refillable, it can change from a sketchboook, to a travel journal to a diary by changing inserts, an elegant companion on the rest of the journey.
Timbuk2 messenger bag

You can design your gift from many fabric and trim options on the easy-to-navigate site; shown, the Barnsbury Beechnut. Prices range from $110 up.
Apple 3G iPho

The coveted technology; you know you'll get a squeal. $200 and up from Apple's online store.
Dahon

For city riding, a full-sized bike built for apartment dwellers. $899 from Dahon.
Beddie-Bye

For the grad moving to a new apartment, the Diamond Quilt and shams for West Elm will add a crisp note to the bedroom, and are washable. A double quilt is on special now for $79, the shams are $16 each.
Looking for something different?
Thank god the little hell-raiser passed? Want to give something that won't be duplicated?
Retro luggage tags
When she gets outta


If you want to upgrade the tags, present them with a Patagonia MLC Wheelie in Desert Clay, $200.
Pearls, not just

From Zara Scoville of Priceless Imperfection, shown, a selection of man pearls for the rakish dude.
Dirty and Tahitian pearls strung on leather cord. Price depends on pearl; about $200.
You should get out m

Nothing clears study stupor like a river raft trip! As long as your grad can swim, he or she can have a blast on your nearest rapids. Search "river rafting"; the photo shown is from River Run, near Ottawa Ontario.
Many raft-tripping companies provide cabin or tent options for overnight stays. Trips range from mild and mellow half-day floats to full weekend whitewater adventures.
Unwind the

Another fantastic way to get the hunched-over-a desk kinks out, a regular yoga practice will set a young person on the path to lifetime strength and flexibility, and help him to cope with whatever the future sends.
You might fund one class or a card for five or ten classes; many studios offer introductory packages. For options near the grad, see Yoga Journal's Directory. (On the site, follow the path Teachers>Directory.)
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PS Thanks for earlier tip re Timbuktoo.
My parents only ever buy me useful presents - like a vacuum cleaner or a pair of scissors, a bike rack or bike light (I kid you not, these are all christmas and birthday presents past).
Nuh, can't think of one except my hairdresser. LOL