Hodgepodge: Four good things

It's been busy around here, so this is a short post but I wanted to share  a hodgepodge of intriguing, uplifting or just plain great things, not solely for gift ideas.


Come See Me In the Good Light (AppleTV+)

This documentary about the late American poet Andrea Gibson is everything at once: vaulting, heartbreaking, wise. Filmed during the last year of her life, with equal emphasis on her wife, the poet Megan Falley, the film is like "Truly, Madly, Deeply" but with a real-life couple and no one showing up like a benevolent zombie... yet.

Photo: AppleTV+

Gibson, who was the Poet Laureate of Colorado, performs some of her poetry, but what is most poetic is her determination to live every second of her life despite her critical condition.


Ineke's Discovery Set #7

Though an ardent wearer of perfumeniche decants, this gorgeously-packaged set is such a special gift that I've sent it to a few friends. And thanks to my nagging persistence, their customer contact specialist Bill has restored shipping to Canada. (Ineke is a boutique perfume house in San Francisco.) The set costs $US 35 and shipping is free within the US. 


L'Oreal's Colour Riche lipstick

Every year-end I clean out the rancid stubby tubes and buy a couple of new lipsticks. I return again and again to L'Oreal's Colour Riche. The satiny finish lasts well and doesn't dry my lips, the colour range is broad and includes shades for all skin tones or moods.

For the price, especially if you find a sale, you can buy a couple of fresh new shades and feel no guilt; I've gone high and low, and Colour Riche is my everyday go-to. Lipstick is life. For the holidays, I bought British Red.

 


 Beaut of a beanie

Lululemon's fuzzy cashmere beanie, oh do I want this,  a snuggly saviour when it's windy and cold, but it has enough style to leave on in a coffee shop or drafty market. Shown in onyx, also available in  black, butter (pale) pink, nutmeg—and the price, $CAN 88 is great.

Photo: Lululemon


And that's it; I'm off to meet a friend who wants a new puffer that "doesn't look overly puffy"— is that even possible?

Comments

LauraH said…
That hat just looks so soft, I can almost feel it. Hope you get your wish. And I agree, lipstick is life. So important to avoid those blue/grey winter lips, they weigh me down. A beautiful lipstick on the other hand...up up and away:-)
Venasque said…
Ok I just have to rant. Canadians do not say beanie, it is an Americanism and I have actually never heard anyone here say beanie They are called tuques. Rant over.

I love lippie - I always think a new one is going to make me look different. Than I buy it and just look the same.
KH said…
Re: Come See Me in the Good Light - From an early age, I’ve I found movies about serious illness and death fascinating (Brian’s Song, anyone?). But I have never seen such impressive emotional fluency as between Andrea and Megan. Such ability to be present and communicate clearly with acceptance of themselves and the other and the reality they were living. Truly beautiful.

Andrea described themself as genderqueer. I really don’t know what that means (same as non-binary?) While I have curiosity about different labels and different experiences, their identity played absolutely no part in the telling of this most human of stories. Which is exactly the point. I wish more people could see this and have eyes and hearts opened.
Duchesse said…
Venasque: It's LuluLemon, so maybe tuque is not as prevalent west of the Rockies? Kidding; I'm sure someone there knows better. One of my favourite local expressions: "Attache ta tuque!"
Duchesse said…
Talking to friends from that community their general take boils down to genderqueer being a broader term that encompasses all kinds of persons who identify beyond the binary, or are as one person said, "political allies". He mentioned his partner, who calls himself "a non-conforming cisgender male" but also "genderqueer".
Duchesse said…
It turns out that "beanie" is extremely small. I tried it in the store, and on my average-sized adult woman's head, it stopped well short of my earlobes—so it's not functional for here. Maybe that's why they call it a beanie and not a tuque as beanies can sit on top of the head, but a proper tuque covers all or most of the ear.
Duchesse said…
KH: I am back to say I found film has stayed with me. And also Andrea's "Love Letter from the Afterlife", as well. She reads it and the text is provided here: https://newwhatsgoingon.blogspot.com/2025/08/love-letter-from-afterlife.html

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