March-ing about: Signs of the times

Today, a scattering of signs that reflect the times, the mood, and the month.

Two that speak of the covid era, but more pointedly, the qualities of some who inhabit it:


Left: On the window of a pet supply store: "Please do not enter if you have symptoms of Covid-19. racism, homophobia, sexism or transphobia."

Right: Frank Zappa, always good for an acerbic observation: "Stupidity has a certain charm, ignorance does not."

An Italian bakery leavens "No mask, no cannoli" by saying thanks:


We await our spring with keen desire; a late snowfall prompts pique:


"Some comfort for those who've had a f-ing lousy week." An apple turnover does help!

My current favourite is a series of breast cancer public service posters:


Left: "Embroidery, not just for aunties. Breast cancer either." 

Right: "Knitting..." same idea. 

"Matante" is a Quebec usage. Literally, it's "ma tante"—my aunt— elided to "matante", and the plural, "les matantes". (The masculine is "mononcle".) Depending on tone, it can be used affectionately or  carry a more pejorative sense like "old biddy". 

It's also used as an adjective to describe something passé. Le Duc taught me that usage when we moved here and I wanted to indicate my wishes to a new stylist: "Je ne veux pas une coupe matante."

Every so often someone writes an editorial pointing out that "matante" is not respectful, that is is les matantes who fill Quebec's concert halls and still buy CDs, which is why these posters are a bit cheeky. Or should I say, bosomy?

This is Leonard Cohen's home town; not far from his old house, a bar's door and staircase reference "Suzanne", which I'll never forget watching him sing.  


We'll go on more walks as the winter breaks up!



Comments

Laura J said…
Oh! These are a delight! Thank you for your keen eye and sharing.
materfamilias said…
Just what I needed this morning -- and had a browse back through the posts I've missed this month -- particularly the trenchant observations about the "tempest in a thrifted teapot." My sister-in-law remonstrated with me on this decades ago, both of us in our twenties. Oldest of 12, with a mother who sewed well and had good taste, I was long used to shopping "Sally Ann" and church rummage sales and saw no reason not to combine that with the regular retail shopping I could now occasionally afford. But she and her four sisters had a mother who would rather buy new K-Mart than thrifted Burberry, worried about any taint of poverty the latter would imply. So she scolded me for taking something that someone "really poor" might "need." . . .
I see some of the same kind of shaming going on in the current controversy -- a continuation of the class markers that work well to encourage consumerism, of status. Let's leave those old clothes for people who really need them. . . and then I get the odd comment on my blog (rarely, but the trolls exist) that I looked as if I'm dressed myself from a church jumble sale. As if that's a shameful thing. . .

Whoops! I've rather gone on and on here, haven't I? Sorry, but yours was such a relevant post.
Noelle said…
Only someone who grew up needing to constantly penny-pinch and dreaming of a new dress could understand the mother who would rather have new Kmart than thrifted items. I don’t think of that as odd at all, just a different way of looking at things based on life experience and an appreciation of what being “really poor” means.
Duchesse said…
Noelle : I understand it too, wanting the crisp, new dress, feeling pretty in its freshness. It's a whole other kind of appreciation to be pleased with secondhand clothes and these days a lot of them are unloveable!

Frances: I posted awhile ago about how my mother adored thrifts but my dad forbade them. So we would sneak to them and then smuggle the goods into the house. He never seemed to catch on. His issue was not "leaving things for poor people", it was that local merchants were his patients and they paid him what he asked for his professional services, so he wanted do the same for them. Though he would occasionally buy something on sale.
Allison said…
I have a pearly comment..tonight we watched the radiant Isabella Rossellini with Louis Gates on his Finding Your Roots show. I couldn’t pay attention to what that knowledgeable gentleman was saying so besotted was I with Ms. Rossellini’s stunning pearl necklace. Hard to tell if it was one long necklace wrapped several times around her neck or piece made to look as if it was wrapped. It was made up of glowing white pearls interspersed here and there with lovely Tahitians, the sort of extraordinary jewel that has its own ‘light’ and casts a most becoming glow on the lucky wearer. Even my husband was taken with it and wondered aloud if it might have belonged to Ingrid Bergman…..got me thinking perhaps the pragmatic Isabelle found it while thrifting!!
Duchesse said…
Allison: I jumped on this, thank you! (There's a clip here: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=526298564771708). I am not sure what the pearls are, they could be good CFWS, the blacks could be dyed CFWS, or this could be baroque SS 's (I see some bands) and Tahitians, but they sure prove our point: pearls make a woman glow. (Isabella has a similar style as her mother's, unfussy clothes and a calm beauty with its own inner glow.) Notice also her large wrap bracelet, looks like crystal and pearl.

I will bet that her necklace is not thrifted, but I've seen pearl ropes at consignment and vintage jewellery stores, because some women buy them but then find these are heavy. Notice too her earrings are perfect, big enough to 'stand up' to that necklace but not in competition with it.

I will be posting on this, as there's more to say and look at.
Jane in London said…
I enjoyed your signs - for better or worse, all Covid restrictions were lifted in England earlier this month so one rarely sees signs about masks in London now.

Londoners seem determined to ignore Covid, particularly now that Spring is here, even though record numbers of people here have got it. I'm not sure whether this makes me joyful, or nervous. Perhaps both...

My husband (who is significantly older than I am) and I have just recovered from it. With the blessing of being double-jabbed and boosted, and no significant underlying health problems, it was a bit like having a bad cold. On the plus side, I'm hoping the antibodies I've created will see me through until my next booster in the Autumn!

Jane in London
Mardel said…
Love the posts, and the signs, and the conflicting feelings and instincts portrayed. Is it not so? Your post felt almost like actually visiting and walking through a place that is not one's own place.
Tom said…
I can see all your acolytes sporting versions of Isabella's beautiful pearls. As you've no doubt seen, there are many photos of her wearing them. I can't wait to see the result of your investigations!

e
Duchesse said…
Mardel: I have long wished you would visit here, and still do.This is a city of openly-presented diversity and old places (for North America), both preserved and decrepit. I love it.

e: (Who •has• visited, a pleasure): Stay tuned, more is coming on Ms Rossellini's pearls.
Laura J said…
Found some photos of those pearls…looking forward to more!

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