Gifts for elder mums

Even if the relationship is fraught, there is someone on this earth who cares about you in a way no one else does.
When one's mother is in her 70s, 80s or 90s, she is likely to say, "Don't make a fuss". You may be in that rarest of positions, knowing exactly what she would love.
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But if you want to give a gift, here are some choices for matriarchs or any elder woman whom you wish to celebrate on Mother's Day, a birthday or just because. Spontaneous gifts are especially appreciated; joyful surprises are relatively few in later years.


When I see an 80-year-old women on the street, I notice that she often wears a dated watch.
The DKNY white patent leather strap model, price, $85 from Dillard's or other stockists, is classic enough to be familiar, but of the moment.

My forthright, glamourous godmother was 91 the last time I visited; on her left hand, she wore an exquisite jade ring. I recall the play of green against her pink cashmere cardigan.



Elasticized at back waist, with two exterior and one inner security pockets. In navy, black and teal, size range from XS to 3XL. Price, $135; coordinating pieces also available.
My mother had at least twenty handbags, none more recent than ca. 1990. But all perfectly good! You know how they think.
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And I'll take one too. One way or another, we are all our mother's daughters.
Comments
Thank you for your excellent suggestions...I am taking my mother out for an afternoon tea in a private club with an ocean view.
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metscan: Fragrance is always a delightful gift, and if giving her signature fragrance, body lotion, shower get etc may not something she might have already.
Pseu: I have always found great gifts for my MIL there, she loves Tilley. But never the dreadful Tilley Hat.
Beatnheart: Champagne for any occasion or none, if you ask me!
LPC: Ah, the gift-that-counts-as-gift-for-later-occasion move.
s: That would look fantastic on you!
hostess: Well, hoped to avoid the "little old lady" look and would wear that necklace myself!
mardel: Have seen that bag in person, it's well-designed.
These are great ideas, as often people of great age resist gifts, since they are trying to give the things they have acquired over their lives away.
déjà pseu, Tilley clothes are sturdy and beautifully made - unfortunately they were often dowdy but they seem to be paying more attention to styling now.