The Cast
Deja Pseu wrote a thorough, precise two-part post on her former and new clothes-shopping approach and resolutions here. As usual, she stimulated my thinking.
Once upon a free-spending, single-gal time, I welcomed a cast of characters to my closet: Hippie Chick, Executive, Single About Town, Avant-Garde (Japanese Division), Sporty: there was a theatre troop stuffed in there, all waiting for their break. Time passed; these were joined by Busy Mum.
Twenty five years later, the characters have dwindled to two: Work Casually and Yogini.
Work Casually owns a few jackets and nice pants; she can muster cocktail attire, but no longer owns a skirted suit. She's settled on black, charcoal, pale grey.
She knows what the workplace expects and is willing to conform, but wants clothes she enjoys, too.
Yogini is not the ascetic sort; she sometimes goes to wine bars, so likes Indian shawls and graceful skirts. She wears more colour, mostly in accessories. Hers is the more sensuous character, and she is gaining ground.
But I still see a 'character' on the street and think, "I can do that": a Buoyant Preppy in a cabled navy sweater and immaculate white jeans, a Deneuve-ish Soigneé Siren in a sleek suit and stilettos, waiting for her driver.
An Adorable Twig in a pink plastic raincoat and flowered rainboots is so fetching, for an instant I think about way-too-young styles.
In the moment, I want to introduce these characters to my closet; I'm like central casting for clothes.
When I look back on the items that did not yield much value, it was these character-costumes. They are someone else, or at the very least a me I don't take out very often.
Who are the characters in your closet? Has the cast changed? Do you welcome a multitude or accommodate only a few?
Once upon a free-spending, single-gal time, I welcomed a cast of characters to my closet: Hippie Chick, Executive, Single About Town, Avant-Garde (Japanese Division), Sporty: there was a theatre troop stuffed in there, all waiting for their break. Time passed; these were joined by Busy Mum.
Twenty five years later, the characters have dwindled to two: Work Casually and Yogini.
Work Casually owns a few jackets and nice pants; she can muster cocktail attire, but no longer owns a skirted suit. She's settled on black, charcoal, pale grey.
She knows what the workplace expects and is willing to conform, but wants clothes she enjoys, too.
Yogini is not the ascetic sort; she sometimes goes to wine bars, so likes Indian shawls and graceful skirts. She wears more colour, mostly in accessories. Hers is the more sensuous character, and she is gaining ground.
But I still see a 'character' on the street and think, "I can do that": a Buoyant Preppy in a cabled navy sweater and immaculate white jeans, a Deneuve-ish Soigneé Siren in a sleek suit and stilettos, waiting for her driver.
An Adorable Twig in a pink plastic raincoat and flowered rainboots is so fetching, for an instant I think about way-too-young styles.
In the moment, I want to introduce these characters to my closet; I'm like central casting for clothes.
When I look back on the items that did not yield much value, it was these character-costumes. They are someone else, or at the very least a me I don't take out very often.
Who are the characters in your closet? Has the cast changed? Do you welcome a multitude or accommodate only a few?
Comments
Then I have the "romantic nature lover":Linen pants in natural, softer and muted colors, matching silk balloon dresses, A-lined silk tops etc. And one of my most fav characters is my "victorian at heart" section: Lots of antique dress stuff, laces, vintage stuff re-vamped, vintage hats and such. All quite elaborate, frilly,decorated,feminine.
I am certainly not the kind of woman who is happy in a black Turtle plus slim black pants. Sometimes I do this look - very "Rundholz" - but mostly I burst out in colored accessoiries to add to the black :-))
I do try for some drama in what I wear, well sometimes, again who needs drama at the drafting table. It just gets dirty or caught in my drafting stool wheels. But, on the whole this is a good thing. I look at old pictures and cringe at some of those experiments I used to try out.
These days, if something feels costume-y when I put it on, I know that it's not really me.
Unfortunately for me, my space, budget and lifestyle pretty much limit me to one "character".
Wanting to wear three or four used to get me distressed; it made me think maybe I didn't know who I was, and that my worldview was confused. But I realized, I'm just a complex person... who loves clothes, all kinds of clothes.
I love it when you categorize! You're downright sociological.
Nancy K: "To eliminate the characters that aren't really you" is the holy grail. And I think we all need a touch of drama (whatever that is for you).
metscan: You have such discipline! Of all bloggers who show their clothes, yours are consistently closest to my taste, but unlike you, my head gets turned by other styles too.
Alienne: Pseu's posts always enlighten me and she's so frank about her hopes vs the reality when she buys clothes.
Pseu: We are all benefiting from your exploration- and when you find your Twisted Classic groove, I can hear your little Pseu heart sing.
LPC: Yes, yes, that's utterly you. But love how you invite Arty Cousin to your party.
spacegeek: Of course it's OK, honeybunch. One day, you may choose to say farewell to one of them (or more). It is *your* call. I haven't been Western Roadhouse Gal for decades so bye-bye Tony Lamas and flashy silk Western shirts.
Glove Slap: You're ahead of me- my world view is still sometimes confused. Maybe that's the cause: complex people build these diverse wardrobes, then wonder "What have I done?"
Mardel: Not knowing who will be left, what a marvelous expression. I'll bet she will really be 'somebody'.
Belle: Unlike some here, you are moving into the 'more characters' domain. I think this can be a creative venture and would love to see the various Belles.
I love your characterizations!
tiffany: The cast changes, and the challenge is to not buy until we have the current characters identified. Took me the longest time to stop stroking Armani suits!
While there were real, deep, painful issues and choices to face, I'm pretty sure the driving crisis was insufficient wardrobe space. :)
Gwen: Do you know the school of psychology called psychosynthesis? A wonderful way of naming, understanding and welcoming the many 'selves' within our Self, called subpersonalities. (This is NOT the split personality concept.) I was thinking of pyschosynthesis when I wrote this post.
My closet is shared by a classic/Grande Dame and a more boho lover of Victorian/Edwardian/exotic.
I wonder - did the Style Statement book help you cull some of the outliers from your closet?
I used to do flirty classic when I worked in institutions, now that I work for myself I'm way more deconstructed dramatic.
I only wanted to invite
Updated Strict + Gentle Soul with color added = one character!
I couldn't think of a name for the character she is sometimes played by G. Paltrow.
Duchesse, do you know this one?
Anonymous: I can see the elegant but not uptight effect, perhaps she is "Gentle Gwyneth"?