2024 Spending Review: Stars, Dogs and That Pledge

My "Take the Jump" pledge to buy fewer new clothes in 2024 changed my consumption, all right. When you promise to limit yourself to three new items a year, it's like eating three french fries: it can be done, but it's going to hurt. I misread the terms and thought I was committing for a year; turns out they asked for only six months' commitment, but that was long enough to shift my patterns.

2024 Stars

In early 2024, before I even contemplated the project, I bought four things from retail stores, so when I signed on in May, I counted those as my new-item allowance. That meant I started at zero!


These are the three pieces... and do shoes count? Please say no.

Clockwise from top left, three Seasalt pieces, all bought on sale:
1.  Fair Isle tank; similar here. A full-body Fair Isle over-patterns me, but a tank works, and with so many colours in the piece, it's endlessly wearable.
2.  "Larissa" cotton shirt; similar here. Great for travel; it's a twist-to-dry cotton.
3. "Reading Rocks" denim jacket; a better cut for me than the classic Western.  
(I don't buy much from Seasalt, but these things worked.) 

And a pair of slippers for outdoors in summer, indoors in winter:  
4. Handmade Sabah flats are not, despite their claims, walking shoes. The soles are paper thin, and there is neither arch support nor shock absorption. I had a sturdier outsole added immediately. 

These are costly for what they are—but they come in gorgeous colours. Like those Venetian velvet slippers, they elevate anything you're wearing, but are specialty shoes. 

Thrifts to the rescue!

The pledge does allow one to shop secondhand. Montréal is a cold-climate city, so from summer to early autumn I looked for snuggly sweaters. Tricotina, the ancient Roman goddess of knits, provided a bounty:


Left: I bookmarked a Scottish Fair Isle maker (Bosie), hoping for an early 2025 sale. In September, Tricotina provided an almost identical unbranded one in perfect condition. Price, $8.00. 
Top right: This slightly-cropped soft wool turtleneck with scattered openwork areas is by Sarah Pacini. One of my best-ever finds; price, $7.50. 
Bottom right: A J. Crew Signature cashmere crew-neck, their best-quality cashmere. Bought on eBay for $35; lofty and cozy. The marinière habit endures.
 
I found other appealing secondhand items, but  didn't bite; if I clog my closet with those, that's still over-consuming. Each of these sweaters provides joyful utility, the very definition of a Star.

Gifts

 I've already shown you Gisele's gift of linen clothes; remember these?


I rarely wore the sleeveless piece; I'll see how it goes this summer. The blue striped dress was worn the most. This is someone else's palette, and I learned it's work to zhuzh 'almost' clothes.

The Three Women earrings


My birthday gift from Le Duc was a pair of "Cleo" earrings by Pilar Agueci, an accord of three artists: the baroque freshwaters at the top are from Sarah Canizzaro (Kojima Pearl); Sarah and Pilar connected at last year's Tucson Gem Show. Pilar acquired the inch-long white sticks from Janis Kerman, who sold her stash when she retired several years ago. These women, who have met one another, together in one piece—that's special to me.

Woof!

There was one Dog, this pink denim Western jacket (thrifted). I picked up my embroidery needle to decorate it, then realized that I much preferred the length of the Seasalt one, and redonated it.


One woman's Dog is another's Star


After placing these Carme Cirer silver and pearl earrings in the Passage's window, I ordered a pair. They are well-made and I love the asymmetric design— but on me, the scale was too small. I failed to consider how tiny a 10mm circle is on my ear. If you wear delicate pieces, they are delightful—but on me they looked like I borrowed someone's earrings.


2024 Grade: B 

I bought less, but can't claim glory—gifts mitigated the austerity. But the discipline has changed me; buying less meant more discernment. For each thrift find, at least one item in my closet went out. 

I graded down for my hubristic denial—waist-length jackets don't work for me anymore— and failing to hold a 10mm outline of those earrings on my ear before I ordered; they had to be returned to Berlin.  

When I received Take The Jump's congratulatory email at six months, I promptly bought a couple of bras, to replace what had become No-shapewear. (Bras! You'll enjoy Melanie Chartoff's  hilarious and tenderly mournful article, "Putting My Outdated Underthings Out to Pasture", published on "The Oldster".)

The pledge was horribly strict if you count functional exercise wear and underwear within the three-item allowance, but having an aggressive goal was a bracing reality check. Now I have no pledge to honour, but something has shifted. 

Have you too made changes? As always, I would love to hear about your criteria, choices, and yes, misadventures.

 

Comments

Good work, Duchesse. I don't think I'd give myself a B. I still trip myself up by adding in pieces for imaginary occasions which don't come to fruition. After all these years, I still recall Brigitte Raes writing about the 'Wishful Wardrobe.'..but not when I'm shopping. I bought 8 fall-winter tops/sweaters which I wear but lost myself in floaty summer dresses when the temperatures were torrid. Fortunately they were thrift.
Jean S said…
I am focused on sewing down my fabric stash--and, if/when I buy (including fabric and/or patterns), being ruthlessly practical. I also went through my jewelry with a tough eye. Several things need to be repurposed, but what do I REALLY want to spend money on? (Who is the goddess of discernment? She had a few things to say.)
LauraH said…
Love the Wishful Wardrobe! That was my stumbling block for so many years. Happy to say I've worked my way towards a Yes I Wear This Wardrobe with help from you:-) I culled a number of shirts and blouses that went to Dress For Success and I'm now wearing a few items that were previously a little tight (weight loss from bronchitis thus summer - have to look at the positive!). Aside from a new Matt & Nat bag I bought nothing this year ( I'm very happy with the bag). When I look in my closet there are things I haven't worn in quite some time so maybe another clean out is due. On the other hand I spent a bomb on travel but that's another story.
Duchesse said…
Frances: Ah, another Bridgette Raes fan! I just saw a post on her FB page where someone sent a WIW photo and she replied, "Hell no!" Usually on these WIW sites there is unstinting praise no matter what. I applaud consultants who give straight talk; they are rare."
Duchesse said…
While I love the idea of sewing one's wardrobe and can spend hours looking at sewist's sites, it is entirely possible to make too much, or just acquire a huge stash. I decided to focus mostly on baking, because it 'vanishes', but even bakers get into specialty equipment, forty vials of food colouring, you name it.
Duchesse said…
Sounds like you had work wear you didn't need any more. The new year is when I get tough on my closet: clothes, accessories and even perfume.
Duchesse said…
Jean S: Athena is your girl. As for repurposing jewellery, there are options. I don't suggest redesign unless you love the stone or it is sentimental. But there are few things more satisfying than a restyled piece you will wear and love.
Tom said…
I always write the same comment: I am in awe of your self-control. 2024--Nothing new, but too much secondhand. I cut back on my visits though and I only patronize a single shop in my little town. Too much still jumps out at me. That gray sweater is gorgeous! My GOAT secondhand purchase is from Paris 2024: a Moncler jacket for under 5 euros.
P.S.OOPS I did buy 2 scarves from a lovely Tibetan woman at the street market in Paris, so 2 new items. And hats off to le Duc--those earrings are really something! e
Leslie said…
A lot to see in this post. I think you did rather well with purchases last year. And no, shoes don’t count. However, if jewelry does count you are screwed.
;-)
I swooned over the Three Women earrings. (Please include in the timeshare you mentioned in a previous comment.)
The thrifted Sarah Pacini sweater was a steal. I went to the website and was amazed to find a pattern in several sweaters that almost exactly matches an aboriginal artist’s painting that I found at an exhibit last year. This can’t be a coincidence, but there could be another source that influenced both.
https://ca.sarahpacini.com/product/casual-sweater-color-splash/7925/#UHJvZHVjdFZhcmlhbnQ6MzM5MDg=
https://artxcontemporary.com/art/matang-waddama-blue-by-kurun-warun

The Sabah shoes also look exactly like Charix sold in the US. I’ve been tempted, but have stopped all shoes that don’t have good arch support. At my age, scaffolding matters. I hope they work well for you. Instagram is shrinking our world and revealing mass produced wholesale products with different brand names.
https://www.charixshoes.com/products/purple-womens

I had no constraints on purchases other than budget and shame. I will try to do better this year.
Allison said…
Those earrings! Gorgeous, wear in good health! I didn’t purchase too much in 2024..a practical Land’s End packable down coat on 60% sale to replace my beloved LELO coat that is falling apart. Anyway 2024 was such a time of poor health and mourning for me that I had little interest in acquiring anything. I’m looking forward to having a few pieces of jewelry from my mother’s hoard restyled starting with the ring-that-looks-like-someone-vomited-diamonds on it, I plan to bring into the 21st century, It was given its name by my mother who bought it for herself at a Toronto pawn shop. The thing has every shape of diamond imaginable so it’s quite gaudy and not my style but the stones are lovely and it has sentimental value. The idea of my then 83 year old mother hauling herself down to McTamney’s to buy her ‘dream ring’ never fails to make me laugh. She had inherited some money and was set on buying a car but had been recently diagnosed with dementia. My crafty father lured her into spending her gift on this ring instead! The rest I’ll have repaired or repurposed.
Now that I am feeling better I need to spend a day cleaning out my closet before I even consider another clothing purchase. There are some duds in there that might fetch a few dollars on Poshmark…

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