tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post4614774025096766788..comments2024-03-28T03:40:29.423-04:00Comments on Passage des Perles: Wardrobe value, Part One: 2012 Report Card Duchessehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-24530808099896893612013-01-23T16:24:23.823-05:002013-01-23T16:24:23.823-05:00The Dombret dress is gorgeous!
I didn't buy m...The Dombret dress is gorgeous!<br /><br />I didn't buy much last year. I did buy quite a few things the previous year but didn't end up liking/keeping most of them. My style was evolving so fast that the rate of mistakes was getting depressing. I took a break.<br /><br />I noted a reference to "Simple Isn't Easy" by Amy Fine Collins and the late Olivia Goldsmith in one of your previous posts (which isn't there now) and just wanted to say how much I love that book. Great advice.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15711792521348799922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-11030829277097562152013-01-13T08:36:02.426-05:002013-01-13T08:36:02.426-05:00lagatta: Can wear that jacket, as I have changed f...lagatta: Can wear that jacket, as I have changed from a Bartlett pear to a Fiorelle- not much change in the bust!<br /><br />Lane: I'm a Filofax woman, too... are we natural-born recorders? But I also have a friend who doesn't write down spending but can tell you within three dollars how much she has spent for a given period and can recall the price of anything she's bought over last 20 years!<br /><br />Judith: I deeply enjoy Janice's blog, especially her forthright wake-up call to overbuying. <br /><br />Another thing I enjoy is her regular use of Hermès scarves in her wardrobe capsules; they always look fresh and current. (Have many, and since rarely appear in full business drag anymore, am always thinking about how else to wear them.)<br /><br />And you, with your black and red ink: you •are• on a mission! I applaud you for jumping off the reflexive consumption bandwagon while still enjoying the pleasure of a well-made item.<br /><br />One of the comments in "Simple Isn't Easy' that's stuck with me is, "No matter what you paid for it (or what a bargain it was), if it's no longer in good condition or not right, let it go." <br /><br /><br /><br />Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-55681255787159968712013-01-12T21:03:56.683-05:002013-01-12T21:03:56.683-05:00Duchesse, re my comment and your reply above... th...Duchesse, re my comment and your reply above... thanks for the coat hanger tip. <br />Now that I have the written audit (in black ink) I get a great deal of pleasure in crossing items off the list IN RED INK when they are discarded. So at year end I will have a very graphic depiction of the state of the wardrobe. <br />I suspect that I have a 5 year project ahead of me before I have a lean, mean, totally wearable and totally loved wardrobe. <br />But for this year at least, even if I no longer really love or even like an item I will wear it(eg to do the grocery shopping). I am not simply throwing things away as I believe that I need to get at least some wear out of the 'mistakes'. <br /><br />Do you know the Blog called the Vivienne files? www.theviviennefiles.blogspot.com.au/ She argues that you really only need 30 items and she plays around with mixing and matching. She rails against people buying on impulse or without thought. That by doing so you allow yourself to be manipulated by the stores, the advertisers and the catalogues which pop up in your mailbox. The argument is all about taking control and being in charge. Not spending money just because someone else talks you into doing so. Control! Not victimhood!<br />Best wishes, JudithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-12779449166971111992013-01-12T19:58:48.117-05:002013-01-12T19:58:48.117-05:00I have years of wardrobe purchases in my Filofax; ...I have years of wardrobe purchases in my Filofax; I record the retail price and if I obtained on sale. Extremely enlightening discipline and fun to look through. I know exactly what I spend.Lanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13175229460841379583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-56275861280781562232013-01-12T19:04:34.875-05:002013-01-12T19:04:34.875-05:00I do hope you can still wear that beautiful citron...I do hope you can still wear that beautiful citron denim jacket; it suits you so well. Usually that is something one can wear fitted or looser (over a Muriel Dombret dress; I'd be inclined to pair it with the ink-blue one, not the similarly-hued one.<br /><br />Often ballet flats look very ugly on my feet, which are wide in front and always have been, even when I was slender. I love them, but have been happier with pretty Chinese slippers, a bit more closed, as a flat for not-too-dressy nor too sloppy meet-ups. There are also more serious shoes along those lines. Very nice ballerina-like flats but a little more closed. Thought "Henderson" but that wasn't the line.lagattahttp://www.motrealcyclechic.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-73441870319430074052013-01-12T18:26:18.252-05:002013-01-12T18:26:18.252-05:00tweedlibrarian: Wish I could see your vintage coat...tweedlibrarian: Wish I could see your vintage coat, love that sort of thing! Were the ballet flats not giving enough support? (That's my problem with them.) Good luck on MFP! Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-53407715395813651232013-01-12T18:24:05.510-05:002013-01-12T18:24:05.510-05:00Judith: Sincerely and reverently, wow! Do you know...Judith: Sincerely and reverently, wow! Do you know the technique where, when you wear something, you turn the hanger? At the end of the season you can see easily what was used and what is surplus or just not loved. I've tried it- effective!<br /><br />Thank you for your downsizing testimonial, it inspires me to keep from closet creep I'm sure it will inspire others- as well as your girlfriends. Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-72521775030600161342013-01-12T16:16:52.511-05:002013-01-12T16:16:52.511-05:00Duchesse, last year in January I decided to reduce...Duchesse, last year in January I decided to reduce the size of my wardrobe.<br />I threw out the old, soiled, misshapen, not fitting, items or the ones which were mistakes and could not be altered. Some I altered to make them wearable. <br />Then I made a complete list (audit) of my clothes, - the numbers of items (eg 9 pair black trousers, 30 T shirts etc). Then I put half the clothes away and wore the other half endlessly until some of them qualified to be thrown out or made into gardening clothes.<br />I promised myself I would buy NO new clothes for 12 months.<br />I survived until August, then I went overseas and fell off the wagon. <br />I bought a few items which did not duplicate an existing item (no more black pants or T shirts). And I bought a few pieces which were either something I always wanted (full length suede coat) or something which I just fell in love with (tote bag in Spain). <br />So, at the end of the year I had reduced the size of my wardrobe (about 25% in some clothing categories, 5% in others). This certainly makes getting dressed a much easier decision process. But I did not reduce the amount of money I spent - which was oK becuase it was not the point of the exercise. <br />I am greatly encouraged however and enjoy having few things. So I am going to do it all again this year. I have conducted another audit and set up another expense sheet. This year I want to reduce the number of items by 20%. I told a girlfriend about the project and she audited her wardrobe and found 57 pairs of trousers and 80 shoes. Now really people.. when is enough enough? and when is it just plain too much or obscene? JudithAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-3632115714058517342013-01-12T12:21:35.457-05:002013-01-12T12:21:35.457-05:00What a great idea to track and analyze clothing pu...<br /><br />What a great idea to track and analyze clothing purchases for a year. I know I spent more than I needed this year but hadn't thought of looking back to see which items were worthwhile (vintage black coat, J.Crew pencil skirts for work) and which were clunkers (unlined wool pants, ballet flats that never fit.)<br /><br />And I'm off to download MyFitnessPal right now!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-576413408873379412013-01-11T21:02:52.973-05:002013-01-11T21:02:52.973-05:00Artful Lawyer: Marvelous finds! When boiled wool i...Artful Lawyer: Marvelous finds! When boiled wool is light enough to wear indoors it's a great weight and the fabric shoes of luscious colours so well.<br /><br />I like Cut Loose tees and have admired other pieces. You can find vendors on line, one is Birdielou.com.Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-14067167707080307422013-01-11T19:58:50.765-05:002013-01-11T19:58:50.765-05:00My only useful clothing comment for this year was ...My only useful clothing comment for this year was that I ended up returning the Lands End cashmere cardigan I'd ordered (a wonderful neutral heather, but so thin!!!) when I found two USA made Cut Loose boiled wool swing coat jackets at a local shop, cuter and CHEAPER (around $168 US for Lands End v $130 US for Cut Loose). And more flattering than a super thin cardy. Want more Cut Loose now!!! The swing coats are well made and I'll be wearing them with turtlenecks and scarves to teach and for client meetings until it's too hot for boiled wool.<br /><br />No new bags this year, one new pair of Danskos. Good on my plantar fascia problem, but the dark red is not as versatile as I'd thought (I wear it with jeans and feel like a small child).Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10207346299129996890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-69775605344483640122013-01-11T17:29:29.010-05:002013-01-11T17:29:29.010-05:00Gayle: I'd be in trouble if I let it run for a...Gayle: I'd be in trouble if I let it run for a year, as I can 'forget'- in fact, ignorance of just how much I was spending is what led to the system. I take a general tally every season. <br /><br />Anon@1:13: It's so hard to gauge someone else's foot and offer useful advice! I wear B width, which is sometimes on the wideish side, don't have an especially narrow heel. They are very comfortable and offer a bit more cover than a strappy sandal, making them good for walking and especially travel. Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-50710395812465127512013-01-11T13:13:34.850-05:002013-01-11T13:13:34.850-05:00Duchesse -- I;ve had my eye on a pair of the Arche...Duchesse -- I;ve had my eye on a pair of the Arche Denzon sandals which you purchased. They look comfy w/ a bit of an "edge", owing to the zipper. Are they as comfortble as they look? I have a very narrow foot, especially at the back/heel area. In your estmiation, do you think they would be well suited to a narrow foot? <br /><br />My purchases this year will be on the conservative side. I have a few voids as far as basics are concerned -- some casual tshirts and chinos. I work from home now, so my wardrobe is largely casual though not "schleppy" just because I'm seen by few!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-91051617786785338252013-01-11T12:50:51.457-05:002013-01-11T12:50:51.457-05:00Frugal: My intensely frugal mother always insiste...Frugal: My intensely frugal mother always insisted on great quality. That's the problem with Chicos and other similar retailers. If we find something we like, we can't keep it for long, as it isn't made to last. <br /><br />Kristien62: Thanks for the elaboration. The prevalent American way (I grew up there) was to add more and more to one's closet- and it does not serve as well as your approach! Oooh I would love to see your Irish clothes.Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-30761481108269041792013-01-11T10:57:06.105-05:002013-01-11T10:57:06.105-05:00Duchesse- prior to going abroad (my first trip), m...Duchesse- prior to going abroad (my first trip), my closet consisted of many separates, dresses, shoes, etc. that had no relationship to each other. I would impulse-purchase without thought to what I might pair with the item. And I dressed in "outfits"--things that I felt only went with that look. I rarely mixed them up. While searching the blogs about how to pack for the trip, I was captivated by the capsule wardrobe and how to make many looks from few items. And scarves! I hadn't worn them in years. Packing for the trip changed my perspective entirely. I have culled the closets and continue to do so. I dress in the items I bought for Ireland constantly, in different combos. When spring comes, I will do the same the spring/summer clothes.<br /><br />Sorry for this lengthy post, but it really has been revolutionary for me and I look so much better.Kristien62https://www.blogger.com/profile/04141776821818167047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-11480554176947369552013-01-11T10:49:22.900-05:002013-01-11T10:49:22.900-05:00My daughter would love that citron dress and looks...My daughter would love that citron dress and looks good in that color too. I bought only a few new items last year: two pairs of skinny jeans (worn a lot), one pair of Born black boots (only worn once, because of warm weather), and a long black sweater coat (worn a lot and looked great till I washed it--typical Chico's so-so quality--luckily reduced vastly). <br /><br />Very impressed by your critical eye--turned on aesthetics and value.Frugal Scholarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12696815672500452503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-25380784149771361392013-01-11T08:18:09.960-05:002013-01-11T08:18:09.960-05:00Gretchen: Sweet success! And I laughed about upsiz...Gretchen: Sweet success! And I laughed about upsizing- guilty, too.<br /><br />BTW Eric Bompard have their cashmere round-neck on sale @ -30%. Navy, of course and many other colours.<br /><br />materfamilias: The Paris store is but a skip from the area you've been staying in- 13 rue du Cherche-midi, the shoe-shopping heaven street. It's always on my list.Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-54185910904178835092013-01-11T01:15:29.262-05:002013-01-11T01:15:29.262-05:00Have done this for years:
Envelope for clothes r...Have done this for years: <br />Envelope for clothes receipts each year. After year end, I add them up. If the number seems huge, I tell myself to "watch it!" If the number seems acceptable for my budget, I tell myself, "good work" ..<br />It's always an eye-opener!Gaylenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-11228249648252628172013-01-10T23:05:32.181-05:002013-01-10T23:05:32.181-05:00Still absolutely loving that Muriel Dombret dress ...Still absolutely loving that Muriel Dombret dress -- fabulous! And I quite like that bag, and I'm debating whether to block that name (Groom, is it?) from my mind next time in Paris, or allow myself to be tempted. . . Admire your discipline and clearly honed wardrobe-buildingmaterfamiliashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16062766947897513369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-866887692253727232013-01-10T20:36:30.383-05:002013-01-10T20:36:30.383-05:00Your post last year, scoring your purchases, is wh...Your post last year, scoring your purchases, is what spurred me to really take better consideration of what I wanted to do with my clothing. Like Kathy, no real mistakes this year, unlike prior years. This year's goal is a pair of rain boots, a Barbour coat in a size that fits (I have a terrible habit of upsizing, wind up looking like I borrowed someone else's clothes), and a beautiful navy jewel neck cashmere sweater. Tougher to find than I ever expected. And a really nice tote. Other than that, maintaining the stuff I own--I really like it, so I better treat it well!Gretchenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01924951632694536923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-79963739717353863642013-01-10T18:00:26.805-05:002013-01-10T18:00:26.805-05:00Kristien62: I find myself wondering how the trip &...Kristien62: I find myself wondering how the trip "changed (your) manner of dressing"- am going to guess you found you could do well and even enjoy fewer things. Or???<br /><br />Yes, the other Muriel D. dress is such a dark navy it looks black and does not photograph well, but it's quietly beautiful. Do hope you can get there. If possible, meet Muriel, she's wonderful- though a bit shy about her talents.<br /><br />Susan: Jersey (in my case, black) is the foolproof travel wardrobe- I also use it everyday. Glad you have found your magic pieces!Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-37418594327860032842013-01-10T17:44:32.441-05:002013-01-10T17:44:32.441-05:00To answer your question asking what has returned e...To answer your question asking what has returned exceptional value---the answer is an easy one for me. I have purchased several Eileen Fisher items which I have worn over and over and over again. I have to confess---all of them are black (or gray) and all are made of viscose jersey. I purchased several EF dresses--some sleeveless and some with three quarter sleeves. They are versatile, flattering, and comfortable. I find myself reaching for them many times. I also purchased long sleeved tops in viscose jersey (both black and gray) that I run the risk of wearing out. Also, my knit ponte pants in gray and in black have been workhorses in my wardrobe. I accessorize these items in various ways--with both jewelry and scarves. They have been excellent purchases. <br /><br />I eagerly await your next post on the topic of wardrobing. I want to know the questions that you ask before buying. Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12756033682201519150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-70335416846832565312013-01-10T16:18:50.277-05:002013-01-10T16:18:50.277-05:00I don't record purchases, but the idea is inte...I don't record purchases, but the idea is interesting. I purchased quite a lot this year, preparing for a trip. Happily, however, I have worn those purchases constantly and didn't regret a single one. The trip actually changed my manner of dressing. <br /><br />The dresses your bought at Muriel Dombret (there was another, wasn't there?) were really lovely. I still anticipate a trip to Ottawa, so I may still get there yet.Kristien62https://www.blogger.com/profile/04141776821818167047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-56680420622410200552013-01-10T11:29:05.116-05:002013-01-10T11:29:05.116-05:00Kathy: No mistakes, terrific- and what fun to shop...Kathy: No mistakes, terrific- and what fun to shop for a special, happy occasion dress.<br /><br />hostess: Thank you. Funny, that yelloed-green colour used to be hard to find but is now if not everywhere, on the radar. <br /><br />sisty: I don't calculate cost per wear but have some idea if I wore it a little or often. I note rsp and sale price, if different.<br /><br />Some things, even if I wore them a lot, would not seem worth it. $250 jeans come to mind. I can find ones I like just as much for far less. I do count all items, and mark which are replacements. <br /><br />Duchessehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09986153653120526776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2872918251244874644.post-39013831588828493322013-01-10T11:22:40.629-05:002013-01-10T11:22:40.629-05:00This is so inspiring! I'm going to take this o...This is so inspiring! I'm going to take this on for 2013. Do you calculate cost per wear, too? Do you count things like underwear and tights?sistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09053105066815670135noreply@blogger.com