Earrings and glasses: Pairs and possibilities
Reader LauraH asked, "As a fellow glasses-wearer and jewellery maven, do you have any advice about combining them with earrings?"
I wear glasses only for close work; they're not on my face all day. But as I thought about it, there are a few ideas swirling there in the background.
Let's deconstruct the elements and begin with glasses, which are an accessory stuck to your face. Imogen Lamport of Inside Out Style has written some useful posts on choosing glasses, like this one.
Adding earrings piles another visual element on that face. You'll be the judge of how busy you want to get, but if you (and I) aren't careful, we can pile on a lot, because you can come to think of your glasses as just part of you.
High-info frames
Lafont's "Borgia" is an intriguing frame I'd be tempted to own as a second or third pair. But there's a lot of visual information here, and if you pick the frame in red, hel-lo! But I have at least one glassy-lassie friend who would wear the heck out of these.
With them, I'd choose pearl studs, for example. I'd save to get them big, with gorgeous overtones, like this 12mm Kasumi pair from Kojima Company; price, $1,250. These are hardly retiring earrings but they do not fight with the frame's detail.
If you're a brave girl, you could ramp up the visual energy and wear something that goes toe to toe with the frame, like a pair of retro ruby and diamond earrings set in 14k, from Beladora. (Price, $1,450.) As you would expect, the clothes with this are architect-office quiet.
Medium-info frames
Kate Spade's Lucyann is the style I'm wearing currently. Though an anonymous commenter advised a change, they work for me, and I can wear several types of earrings with them.
Most winter days I'll choose small diamond studs because the screw-backs hold securely as I whip hats or earmuffs off. I also wear a pair of John Hardy earrings similar to those below, from Beladora: the 18k/sterling mix blends with other metals easily (Price, $250).
Lightweight metal frames
Metal frames, especially the light, spare type, add minimal information, but if you wear that frame with metal earrings, that's a lot of hard texture at your face. It will look alright, but it's a colder effect, as shown by this Vera Wang black titanium pair, which I like very much. They are graceful and clean but lack the warmth of the acrylics, especially those with laminated colour or tortoise-shell mottles.
With them, I'd choose an earring that's more gem than metal, like Gabrielle Sanchez' amethyst globes, $1,250 at TwistOnline.) Nor would I confine the earring setting to a dark metal unless I wanted that goth-girl effect.
In a drop earring, Beth Orduna's lavender-grey drop hoops soften the metal and add the always-magical glow of pearl. (Price, $308 at TwistOnline.)
And, LauraH and others, how often do you update your frames? Do you choose for yourself or take an optician's advice? My friends Alice teases her husband: his aviators, over 30 years old, are now back in style.
But we don't want to wait out a turn of the retro wheel!
I wear glasses only for close work; they're not on my face all day. But as I thought about it, there are a few ideas swirling there in the background.
Let's deconstruct the elements and begin with glasses, which are an accessory stuck to your face. Imogen Lamport of Inside Out Style has written some useful posts on choosing glasses, like this one.
Adding earrings piles another visual element on that face. You'll be the judge of how busy you want to get, but if you (and I) aren't careful, we can pile on a lot, because you can come to think of your glasses as just part of you.
High-info frames
Lafont's "Borgia" is an intriguing frame I'd be tempted to own as a second or third pair. But there's a lot of visual information here, and if you pick the frame in red, hel-lo! But I have at least one glassy-lassie friend who would wear the heck out of these.
With them, I'd choose pearl studs, for example. I'd save to get them big, with gorgeous overtones, like this 12mm Kasumi pair from Kojima Company; price, $1,250. These are hardly retiring earrings but they do not fight with the frame's detail.
Medium-info frames
Kate Spade's Lucyann is the style I'm wearing currently. Though an anonymous commenter advised a change, they work for me, and I can wear several types of earrings with them.
Most winter days I'll choose small diamond studs because the screw-backs hold securely as I whip hats or earmuffs off. I also wear a pair of John Hardy earrings similar to those below, from Beladora: the 18k/sterling mix blends with other metals easily (Price, $250).
Lightweight metal frames
Metal frames, especially the light, spare type, add minimal information, but if you wear that frame with metal earrings, that's a lot of hard texture at your face. It will look alright, but it's a colder effect, as shown by this Vera Wang black titanium pair, which I like very much. They are graceful and clean but lack the warmth of the acrylics, especially those with laminated colour or tortoise-shell mottles.
With them, I'd choose an earring that's more gem than metal, like Gabrielle Sanchez' amethyst globes, $1,250 at TwistOnline.) Nor would I confine the earring setting to a dark metal unless I wanted that goth-girl effect.
In a drop earring, Beth Orduna's lavender-grey drop hoops soften the metal and add the always-magical glow of pearl. (Price, $308 at TwistOnline.)
And, LauraH and others, how often do you update your frames? Do you choose for yourself or take an optician's advice? My friends Alice teases her husband: his aviators, over 30 years old, are now back in style.
But we don't want to wait out a turn of the retro wheel!
Comments
My optician tried to steer me to thin vertical height ones that do not suit a rectangular face, so no they aren't style mavens, instead I picked some Nana Mouskouri types that are back in style. Nothing screams old lady more than thin metal or rimless so stay far away.
Your other option and what I suggested to another woman who has problems reading/computer is try the new multifocal contact lenses. Most optometrists never tell you about them because "old" ladies are supposed to not want to try anything new and cannot change. I also wear daily multifocal contacts which are new on the market, I was actually the first customer they sold them to at my optometrist. They just never suggest them to anybody. I was lucky to have an enthusiastic new graduate optometrist who didn't yet have "senior blinders" when it comes to women over 50. You can wear these even with dry eyes.
I only wear glasses when I drive and when I go to movies, so I tend to have outdated frames.
Mary: I'm not suggesting matching, just pairing in a pleasing way. I have indeed seen frames and earrings in infelicitous harmony.
Anonymous: That's right, they either don't care or are pushing the costilest to highest-margin lenses. But there are good opticians out there who know if you look terrific in your frames, you'll get complimented and asked where you got them. Are your frames those huge Tom Ford cats'eyes?
LauraH: Suggest you try many. many frames with the info in the back of your head. I usually look for a neutral (but not dull) colour with texture and softness. Bright glasses are not my taste but sometimes I see them on others and love them.
Pseu: Your glasses are always great and I notice you wear both coloured frames and neutrals.
LauraH: There is a state between the poles of same few and magpie. Some women wear the same earrings every day, but I like to change, b/c my winter wardrobe is a "uniform".
Susan: Great advice; some opticians or salespeople really care, others just want you in/out fast. If your frames are outdated, time for new ones- can change your whole look.
I'm curious -- what is your clothing "uniform" for winter?
I wear mine with diamond studs everyday and in the evening I add more flash and often remove my glasses putting them on only for reading menus etc.
BTW I quite like your choice of frames, they suit you.
Opticians are notorious at giving poor style advice on eye frame choices.
When I was actively Image Consulting, this was one of the most important articles I assisted my clients in choosing.
Rimless is very ageing...wire on the top only, can dissect the eye area and make one look angry...tortoise in one of your inherent colours is usually the most pleasing and versatile.
At close to $1,500 a pair, I choose carefully and usually a flattering (for me) shape that is on the upswing of a trend so I get multiple years wear out of them.
Bifocal contacts work well for many...sadly not me. The most common types are made with concentric circles of varying powers but my pupils are too large to work effectively. The moment I put sunglasses on, my pupils enlarge even more and I'm looking out of the wrong section of the lense. Argh...
Eyeglasses are jewelry for your face so earring coordination is fairly important.
Great ideas here...lusting now for the Amethist Globes!!
Kathleen
hostess: I am always in shock when they tote up the price of the frames and lenses! Have one pair (French frames) I have been wearing for a dozen years; when I question the optician (A seriously stylish woman) she says, "Change the lenses if you need to but not the frame, they are perfect.")
Only bought the ones I'm wearing in my blog photo b/c I thought they were lost.
Well Styled: Yes, jewelry for your face! I don't wear them except for close work and would find contacts a huge adjustment.
---Jill Ann
Susan; Since this post is about earrings (not som uch frmes types) I had not even thought of nose options, but yes, even if the frame is smashing if it leaves you feeling like youre wearing swimming pincers, back to the store.
Jill Ann: The markup on frames is astonishing! There are several thrifty options: used frames (or dead stock) available on eBay or at flea markets, and buying in countries where they are much cheaper. An acquaintance buys frames when he is in India (for his entire family); they are unsold stock from very well-known makers. He carries the rx and has the lenses put in there, too- total cost is $40-$75.
I find it almost impossible to see these things in the mirror. It´s not until a photo falls into my lap that I realize what I really look like...
But I always wear glasses and earrings and never think any thing of it.
Sandra: I did not give it conscious thought myself till asked the question. But I guess it was back there in my brain, b/c some earrings just stay in the box when I have my glasses on.
I like the combinations you've pictured here.
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