Retirement move as travel alternative
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She and her partner, childless, have a four-bedroom house, two cars. Over a glass of rosé, we discussed whether that setup would make sense when he retires this winter.
She wondered, How can we trim our expenses to afford more trips? What about home exchanges?
I mentioned newly-retired friends who, like her, looked warily at the ever-rising costs of travel. Others are concerned about the environmental effects of tourism. A number of these people have said, "Instead of costly occasional trips, I want to live somewhere that lifts me up every day."
This is an option for those not required to stay in their former locations for work or family reasons. These friends are avid travelers, but don't have limitless funds. Some of their moves:
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- Pat and Vicky are selling their townhouse in Toronto and moving to Palawan Bay, Philippines as permanent residents.
- Krista and Martin sold a house in Ottawa and moved to the Kootenay region of British Columbia, to hike and ski to their heart's content. They rent for the time being. This location is also closer to their child and his family.
Travel is a splendid and edifying adventure, but it is also a consumable, something the safari ad does not point out, but your Visa bill will.
My in-laws took another route; they sold the family home twenty-five years ago, took early retirement, bought an RV, and hit the road for sixteen years, fusing their home with travel. Now in their eighties, they have traded the RV for an apartment and road trips. My MIL recently said those sixteen years were the best of her life.
There are drawbacks to the strategy: cost and labour of a major move, adaptation to a different climate, culture or language, availability of services, especially health care.
Partners might find it tough to reach agreement on 'the right place'. Maybe your first choice will turn out to be too expensive or impractical. But before you think "Oh no, I (or we) couldn't", keep an open mind.
It's never too early to start your research. When I began this blog over three years ago, a move was not on the radar. Now, here we are in Montreal, a year after we decided to start looking. That was fairly fast; Pat and Vicky are in year four of the Philippines move, ETA January 2012.
You might opt for a full move or divide your time initially, but given that the major expense categories for seniors are housing and transportation, if you can find a permanent setting that delights you, aim for that.
Of course I'm biased; we are thrilled with our choice. Not all retirement moves work out; perhaps you have stories of some that didn't.
But if you're intrigued, why not consider, calculate and investigate? Sometimes, the best room with a view is your own.
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Comments
I guess the lesson is to prepare for the worst and do not be afraid to take your time.
Cheers,
Lunachance
Partenope: The 60s can be what one of my friends calls "the last fit decade", and while that sounds depressing, and we may beat the odds, I have observed that there is a limited time to bank on mobility. Good for you!
Lunachance: This is an important point. My friends visited the areas (more than once) before moving. We were advised to do rent our house for a year and see but we did not want to be absentee landlords, return to prep the house to sell, and move again within our new city (from a rental to a place we own. That's costly.) and the market was hot. So we made the leap. There are advantages to both strategies.
Yes, taking one's time is essential.
have a glorious vacation,
Vivienne
We've considered something radical in retirement, like moving to Santa Fe. I think we will rent there first, if we continue to be intrigued by that idea.
We've also considered selling our four bedroom house and buying a two bedroom condo for ease of maintenance.
Very timely topic, Duchesse
pseu: Perhaps you would like to spend more time visiting the 'contenders'. Often different when you rent a house or apt. and pretend you live there, to when you go as a tourist, staying in inn or hotel. Beautiful area!
kathy peck: Thanks, looking forward to visits with friends.
Vivienne: Exciting! A big plus to return somewhere you've lived, decreases the unknowns.
susan: My brother and his wife, who (78 and ?), still live on their farm in OR, but one son and his wife built on the property, and help them. There are ways to stay in the country, but the distance from services becomes more of an issue.
A friend retirement-moved to Santa Fe from DC. Took her several years to adjust (and she wanted to move back) but now loves it.
The RV "gyspy" life is loved by many, but you need a really tight relationship to be happy living in a small space. (My in-laws were stellar examples!) Also, when the RV eventually wears out, very costly to replace, unlike your house, you did not build equity.
Have a great time in Paris!
I'm so pleased Pseu might be a neighbor in the Napa area someday :).
Have a beautiful time in Paris!
Sewing Librarian: Thank you, hoping for the beautiful fall weather we've had here, in Paris.
Susan Tiner: One of the factors for our move was seeing a chart the chief actuary of a major insurance company presented to an internal group, re financial planning for retirees. The big spike for travel expenses 5 years in the early 60s. Then there was a gradual decline, tailing off (but not completely ending) in the late 70s. I thought, if I live as long as my mother (99!) that's a lot of years when travel is not that easy, so where do I want to be?
We have done major moves twice already, with a third planned in the next few years. We've experienced both owning and renting. Our travel so far has been quite modest, but I've seen his taste for it grow a bit, so I anticipate more adventures ahead.
What I wonder is whether we'll ever *really* settle on a home town. The thought of staying in a home for more than 10 years (which I did once, in childhood), or in the same metro for 20 (once), has become rather foreign. It sounds wonderfully relaxing... ;)
As for you, now that you're well settled in Montreal, you're ready to enjoy your favourite kind of travel -- have a lovely vacation in Paris! Perhaps LeDuc might convince Christophe to put that wonderful lemon dessert back on the menu. . .
Enjoy Paris!
materfamilias: Le Duc has found Christophe appreciates Japanese artisanal whiskeys, but I'm not holding my breath!
Tiffany: Moving while continuing to work is another idea. Another friends of mine and his wife went to Sri Lanka to run an orphanage. But that's another post!
Even when their marriage broke up and my Mum got cancer at 60ish, she travelled and made the most of her life.
PS - have a lovely trip and thanks for your inspirational blog. I'm not in your demographic, but it's so lovely to see you and your community living rich, fulfilled lives. It gives me hope.
Eleanorjane
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I have ordered them and now am not sure about the style even though they are great for what I need (flat shoes into which I can put my orthotics, walk easily, and most importantly with my weak ankles, not fall down! But I am worried now that they are incredibly ugly and not chic. Please tell me what you really think! Thank you so much!
Francie
Know you have problems with our feet and the joy of really being able to walk is worth any amount.
I am in Paris now, jet-lagged but happy- not blogging but wanted to answer you.
Francie
I am your new follower and look forward to knowing more about your blog
Helen Tilston
PS I found you through Tish Jett
Jacqueline: I know NOTL well (after living in Toronto for 30 years) and you describe it well for readers unfamiliar with the area. Appreciate your telling us about revising your first choice. Not sure if this was your case, but I've met several women whose enthusiastic golfer spouses sold them on golf-centric location and they were massively bored.
Helen: Welcome and thank you. Tish and I just had a long lunch today, which was a delight.